http://wingsofchangelife.com/blog/2009/11/01/how-to-let-bygones-be-bygones/ Articles to help you change your life relationships, finances and purpose Mon, 08 Nov 2010 16:43:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://wingsofchangelife.com/blog/2009/11/01/how-to-let-bygones-be-bygones/comment-page-1/#comment-15 Jim Murdoch Mon, 02 Nov 2009 14:15:06 +0000 http://wingsofchangelife.com/blog/?p=62#comment-15 Hi Jameelah, thanks for stopping by. Keep in mind that we forgive for ourselves, not for the forgiven person. Forgiveness clears the emotions which make us ill and upset. Once we've forgiven we open up to new inspiration. You may find an article I wrote on Relationship Boundaries helpful, on my other blog <a href="http://www.jmurdoch.com/2009/08/17/boundaries-in-relationships-what-is-a-relationship/" rel="nofollow">http://www.jmurdoch.com/2009/08/17/boundaries-i...</a>. But you are on the right path. Jim Hi Jameelah, thanks for stopping by. Keep in mind that we forgive for ourselves, not for the forgiven person. Forgiveness clears the emotions which make us ill and upset. Once we've forgiven we open up to new inspiration. You may find an article I wrote on Relationship Boundaries helpful, on my other blog http://www.jmurdoch.com/2009/08/17/boundaries-i…. But you are on the right path. Jim

]]> http://wingsofchangelife.com/blog/2009/11/01/how-to-let-bygones-be-bygones/comment-page-1/#comment-5 jimmurdoch Mon, 02 Nov 2009 07:15:06 +0000 http://wingsofchangelife.com/blog/?p=62#comment-5 Hi Jameelah, thanks for stopping by. Keep in mind that we forgive for ourselves, not for the forgiven person. Forgiveness clears the emotions which make us ill and upset. Once we've forgiven we open up to new inspiration. You may find an article I wrote on Relationship Boundaries helpful, on my other blog <a href="http://www.jmurdoch.com/2009/08/17/boundaries-in-relationships-what-is-a-relationship/" rel="nofollow">http://www.jmurdoch.com/2009/08/17/boundaries-i...</a>. But you are on the right path. Jim Hi Jameelah, thanks for stopping by. Keep in mind that we forgive for ourselves, not for the forgiven person. Forgiveness clears the emotions which make us ill and upset. Once we've forgiven we open up to new inspiration. You may find an article I wrote on Relationship Boundaries helpful, on my other blog http://www.jmurdoch.com/2009/08/17/boundaries-i…. But you are on the right path. Jim

]]> http://wingsofchangelife.com/blog/2009/11/01/how-to-let-bygones-be-bygones/comment-page-1/#comment-4 jameelahraoof Sun, 01 Nov 2009 23:00:45 +0000 http://wingsofchangelife.com/blog/?p=62#comment-4 Correction: marraige that is NOT going exactly as I would like...maybe a freudian slip....:-) Correction: marraige that is NOT going exactly as I would like…maybe a freudian slip….:-)

]]> http://wingsofchangelife.com/blog/2009/11/01/how-to-let-bygones-be-bygones/comment-page-1/#comment-3 jameelahraoof Sun, 01 Nov 2009 22:56:55 +0000 http://wingsofchangelife.com/blog/?p=62#comment-3 I have been dealing with a marraige that is going exactly as I would like. I have read your passage and I feel you touched on every aspect of what I have been dealing with. I am ready to stop punishing myself with all of the "what ifs" I am so happy I read this today, because my spirit is really looking to move forward and I am ready...I know I have to put positive thinking into practice.. I have to spend as much time practicing positivity and forgiveness as I have spent time practicing the negativity and resentment...Thank you kindly! I have been dealing with a marraige that is going exactly as I would like. I have read your passage and I feel you touched on every aspect of what I have been dealing with. I am ready to stop punishing myself with all of the “what ifs” I am so happy I read this today, because my spirit is really looking to move forward and I am ready…I know I have to put positive thinking into practice.. I have to spend as much time practicing positivity and forgiveness as I have spent time practicing the negativity and resentment…Thank you kindly!

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